Sunday, April 28, 2013

Who is Lark: Abroad?

I've had several recent inquiries about the story behind my name.  True to my name, I am merry and ready for adventure!  Hence my tendency to lark abroad.  

Lark is an international name:
German- Lerche (ch sounds like k and e sounds like eh)
Old High German- Lerihha
French- Alouette
Spanish- Alondra
Italian- Ladola
Portuguese-Calhandra
Latin- Alauda


The Old English origin of this word predates the year 900, in the form: lwerce.

Lark

noun
1.
a merry, carefree adventure; frolic; escapade.
2.
innocent or good-natured mischief; a prank.
3.
something extremely easy to accomplish, succeed in, or to obtain: That exam was a lark.
verb (used without object)
4.
to have fun; frolic; romp.
5.
to behave mischievously; play pranks.


Having a uncommon English name is a blessing and a curse.  It is a curse because many people think I am misspelling or miss pronouncing my own name which they believe to be "Mark".  It also lends itself to many annoying nicknames and play on words, such as "Lark, the herald angels sing".  It is a blessing because uncommon names force you to develop a strength of character in elementary school.  My name comes from that of a meadow bird with a sweet song, but more directly was inspired by the 1948 film  Enchantment, a WWII love story about an orphan girl named Lark.  Even ore specifically,  Lark was played by the French child actress, Gigi Perreau.  My mother anticipated that I'd have a similar appearance when born.

Gigi as Lark.  Not the best picture, but not many images of her in this role are available.  
Some quotes from the film:
"I remember Miss Lark well. One doesn't forget Miss Lark." ~ Proutie

"There's no such thing as an empty room." ~ Rollo

"Don't cheat yourself of love the way I did. Listen to me! Don't stop to bargain for happiness, for in one wasted moment, a door may close, a ship may sail, a train may leave, a man may die. " ~ Rollo

 
Selina Dane: We'll be so proud of you: General Sir Roland Dane. 


General Sir Roland Dane a.k.a Rollo: No. If I have to choose between my army career and Lark. I know which I want. I want Lark! 

Selina Dane: You can't mean that. 

General Sir Roland Dane a.k.a Rollo: Believe me, I do. 



Incidentally, a group of larks is known as "An Exaltation". Exaltation- elation of mind or feeling;a feeling of intense well-being or exhilaration; rapture. Also, it is a zodiac symbol of positive influence.
Alouette, gentille alouette, Alouette, je te plumerai.
Je te plumerai la tête.
Je te plumerai la tête.Et la tête! Et la tête! Alouette! Alouette!
Je te plumerai le bec. Je te plumerai le bec. Et le bec! Alouette!
Je te plumerai les yeux. Je te plumerai les yeux. Et les yeux! Alouette!
Je te plumerai le cou. Je te plumerai le cou.Et le cou! Alouette!
Je te plumerai les ailes. Je te plumerai les ailes. Et les ailes! Alouette!
Je te plumerai les pattes. Je te plumerai les pattes. Et les pattes! Alouette!
Je te plumerai la queue. Je te plumerai la queue. Et la queue! Alouette!
Je te plumerai le dos. Je te plumerai le dos. Et le dos! Alouette!
Alouette, gentille alouette, Alouette, je te plumerai.
This song is the rather violent French version of Head-Shoulders-Knees-And-Toes.
It is used in Canada and France to teach children the parts of the body.

There are also some literary references to lark that are worth mentioning:

“The year's at the spring / And day's at the morn; / Morning's at seven; / The hillside's dew-pearled; / The lark's on the wing; / The snail's on the thorn; / God's in his heaven - / All's right with the world!” ~Robert Browning ( English Poet of the Victorian age 1812-1889)

“Haply I think on thee, and then my state,
Like to the lark at break of day arising
From sullen earth, sings hymns at heaven's gate;
For thy sweet love remembered such wealth brings
That then I scorn to change my state with kings.”
~ William Shakespeare

"It was the lark, the herald of the morn." ~William Shakespeare

“None but the lark so shrill and clear; / How at heaven's gates she claps her wings, / The morn not waking till she sings.”  ~John Lyly

"Housework is a breeze. Cooking is a pleasant diversion. Putting up a retaining wall is a lark. But teaching is like climbing a mountain."~ Fawn M. Brodie


There is also a compelling 1884 painting by Jules Breton, called Song of the Lark. 

I love that you can't tell if it is the approaching dawn or dusk, if she is content or sad.  I love the subject is honest labor and that the song of the lark causes her a moment of pause.  My union president is the person who introduced me to this painting and I love it and the correlations is has in my life.

Another artistic reference to labor and the song of the lark is an 1882 painting by Winslow Homer, Hark! The Lark:

Three English North Sea village women pause mid morning work to listen to the morning song of the lark. They are tired but appear to be determined. On a sketch for this painting, Homer wrote: “Hark, hark! the lark at heaven’s gate sings/And Phoebus ’gins arise”—Shakespeare’s poetic nod to sunrise from Cymbeline.

Having a uncommon name certainly influenced my personality development, being the only Lark in my life has given me a strange context.  I've never had the feeling of being confused with one of the six other Jennifers or Ashleys in my school.  Between 1930 and 1940, only 62 people in the United States were given the name Lark.  Since the birth of the U. S. Air Force to 2012, only one other women (active duty and civilian) has the name Lark and she also was highly motivated, and had a long list of military accomplishments.  Perhaps the power of a name is enough to set someone apart from the rest.  This is not always a positive experience.

People have strong reactions to me: they love me or hate me with little middle ground.   Of course they are all completely biased and should not be trusted to give an accurate assessment. While one would hope to always be viewed in a favorable light, I also prefer to be authentically me:
A doer
A voice
A teacher
An observer
An organizer
An adventurer
A life-long learner
An obsessive cleaner
A truly happy morning person 

 Those who love me say I am the embodiment of my name.  I'd like to capture a few thoughts from some former students that they've shared with me this month.

One of my former students sent me this image with this copy: 

"When confronting challenges, she will never give up."
This is an enhanced photograph by © Hoang Hiep Nguyen/2013 Sony World Photography Awards


Another former student said: "I like it when you try to do impossible things."

Happy as a Lark as the day is long.
Lark about.
Goe to bed with the Lambe, and rise with the Larke.
For a lark.
On a lark.
No lark flew.
Kick up a lark.
What a lark!
On a lark's wing.
Click here to hear Tchaikovsky's Song of the Lark.  Click here to hear the Lark Ascending by Vaughan Williams.  Click here to hear Glinka-Balakirev's The Lark.  Click here to hear Kate Rusby's folk song The Lark. Click here to hear Hayden's The Lark quartet piece.  Click here to hear the jazz piece Up With The Lark by Jerome Kern.   Also, you can click here to see a lovely photo of lark's eggs in a nest.


Please share any lark-findings you think are interesting in the comments below.

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Annual Goals 2013: An Update

For the last few years, I've made 12 goals I strive to complete during the year.  Some are successful, others not so much.  Part of being successful is planning and preparation.  The rest is execution and accountability.  Here is an update on my status for this year's goals.

2013 GOALS:

12. lose 15 kilos  
No progress

11. get my leg strength back from break
No progress

10. apply for Belgian PhD program
No progress

9. improve my French seriously
Some progress. Faithfully attending class, but time is limited to perfect content. Will dedicate time in July to boost and reinforce content. Also looking into taking French for non-native speakers course at a local university for the Fall.

8. improve my Arabic seriously
Some progress. Faithfully attending class, scored 55% on my first exam (50% was passing). Delighted as the language of instruction is French. I can write better than ever before. Spelling is terrible, but vocabulary is expanding. Now understand some prepositions.

7. CELTA somehow
Applied for a program. Interview on Friday 03 May. Fingers crossed!

6. learn to cook 12 new things 
Some progress. I've learned to cook 2 new things I am comfortable making.

5. read 100 books
Some progress. I've finished 12% of this goal with another 3% currently underway. Hoping to make a serious dent in July to compensate for the limited time of the first quarter of this year.

4. finish both Master's Degrees
A LOT of progress. I've gotten 2 rounds of approvals for my final research which will focus on English Education as the New Imperialism. This will continue to usurp all time and sanity until complete. Expected end date 20 June 2013.

3. go see three new countries (France, Turkey, .....????)
Also significant progress. Visited Paris for the free day at the Louvre, spent just over a week in Izmir/Istanbul.

2. take 10 really great photos
No progress.

1. spend more time with people i love
Some progress. Trying to have regular chats with friends, providing more distance support for former students, spending time with new friends, too.

100 Books


This year I have a goal to read 100 books. 12 down, 88 more to go!

1. Little Princes by Conor Grennan (highly recommend- about Nepal)
2. Passage to Istanbul by Joseph Kanon (meh- slow spy novel, not very much culture, do not recommend)
3. Desert Queen by Janet Wallach (you have to be in the mood)
4. Tales from the Expat Harem by Anastasia Ashman (highly recommend)
6.  Rebel Land by Christopher de Bellaigue (recommend- historical background via stories of different kinds of people in Turkey including Kurds and Armenians)
8. SOLD by Zana Muhsen (highly recommend- about Yemen)
9. My Forbidden Face by Latifa (highly recommend- about Afghanistan)
10.  Princess by Jean Sasson (highly recommend- about Saudi Arabia)
11. Girls Like Us: Fighting for a World Where Girls are not for Sale by Rachel Loyd (recommend- about child enslavement in New York)
12.  Leap of Faith by Queen Noor (highly recommend- captures the recent history of the Palestinian peace process and of course Jordan).  
13.  Murder in the Name of Honor by Rana Husseini (highly recommend, about Jordan & the world)
14. A Long Walk to Water by Linda Sue Park (highly recommend, fast and compelling read about South Sudan)

Currently underway:
5. Apples are from Kazakhstan by Christopher Robins (recommend- great explanations of Soviet transitions)
7.  Crescent & Star by Stephen Kinzer (not a narrative- just historic information- dry)
15.  The Woman Who Fell From The Sky by Jennifer Steil (about Yemen)

Up next:
???

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Belgium Day 152: World Children's Day

Things I learned from World Children's Day:
1.  All children are precious, talented, and deserve a chance to live a peaceful life.
2.  All countries have valuable culture, traditions, and perspectives to share.
3.  We must celebrate the talents of all children in all nations and appreciate the joy that they bring to the world.
4.  All people are worthy of love and peace.
5.  It is worth working towards peace in the world.
6.  We can forgive and support each other.
7.  We can never give up on peace.
8.  Sharing our lives, our customs, and our talents bring us closer together.
9.  Children are a gift.
10.  Peace begins with innocent kindness and if children can do it, adults can and should.

Hungarian Children

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

100 Books



100 Books

This year I have a goal to read 100 books. 10 down, 90 more to go!

1. Little Princes by Conor Grennan (highly recommend- about Nepal)
2. Passage to Istanbul by Joseph Kanon (meh- slow spy novel, not very much culture, do not recommend)
3. Desert Queen by Janet Wallach (you have to be in the mood)
4. Tales from the Expat Harem by Anastasia Ashman (highly recommend)
6.  Rebel Land by Christopher de Bellaigue (recommend- historical background via stories of different kinds of people in Turkey including Kurds and Armenians)
8. SOLD by Zana Muhsen (highly recommend- about Yemen)
9. My Forbidden Face by Latifa (highly recommend- about Afghanistan)
10.  Princess by Jean Sasson (highly recommend- about Saudi Arabia)
11. Girls Like Us: Fighting for a World Where Girls are not for Sale by Rachel Loyd (recommend- about child enslavement in New York)
12.  Leap of Faith by Queen Noor (highly recommend- captures the recent history of the Palestinian peace process and of course Jordan).  

Currently underway:
5. Apples are from Kazakhstan by Christopher Robins (recommend- great explanations of Soviet transitions)
7.  Crescent & Star by Stephen Kinzer (not a narrative- just historic information- dry)

Up next:
13.  Murder in the Name of Honor by Rana Husseini

Turkey Day 10: Izmir







All fresh, local, and delicious!

Even the water is cheerful!

Beautiful, delicious, and nutritious.  Such a fantastic meal. Thank you for sharing real Turkish food with us!


Reading the future from a teacup!




I am surrounded by sweetness!  Such wonderful friends! It is impossible to be with them and not have a heart full with love and happiness.   

Turkey Day 10: Cesme



Hello welcoming waters of the Mediterranean!






Quick snack at the cafe.





Man on the left: "You want to take the picture? Ok, 100 Euros." Me: "I am a teacher." Him: "Ok, I give you discount, you pay just 100 Lira." Me: "Ok, let me get right on that!"




Monday, April 8, 2013

Turkey Day 9: Ortakoy







The most beautiful conversation.  I didn't capture it well, but i didn't want to be rude. Turkish sign language is so pretty.  

You see all sorts in Turkey! 


Baked potatoes bigger than my face.

Ta da!

REALLY yummy.

Potato row.  


Fun henna













Waffles.  Life-changing waffles. 




First the edges get trimmed...

then we add white chocolate, dark chocolate, and banana sauce...

followed by fresh fruits...

Perfection

Do I have to leave?!


Sauces

Finishing touches




On the ferry back to Bursa!
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Due to the volume of requests for additional henna pictures, I am including more shots of the process and finished product below.  









So lovely!